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WHEN YOU ARE IN A HOLE, STOP DIGGING

One of the first rules you learn about driving in sand is that when you are in a hole, stop digging.

When I started driving in dunes, I frequently got stuck in patches of soft sand.  As a novice, when I bogged down, I spun my tires which made me sink progressively deeper until the chassis rested solidly on the ground.   Only then did my Defender stop sinking.

Eventually I discovered that if you don't spin your wheels when you first get stuck, you don't sink down nearly as far.  It's much easier to recover a bogged vehicle when it's not buried all the way up to the chassis.

We developed a damage control rule for everyone who drove with us in the sand.  When the forward motion of the vehicle ceases, you immediately stop spinning your tires so that vehicle recovery will be easier.  When we did it that way, we could usually go in reverse and back out of the sand trap if a couple of people got out and gave the vehicle a push with their hands.  Only occasionally was it necessary to use sand ladders, winches, or snatch straps.

This rule is applicable to life in general.  When you find your self stuck, when forward motion ceases, it's time to stop digging.  If you continue to spin your mental wheels, you will only sink deeper into the muck and mire.   Whatever it was that you were doing before you got into trouble, you must immediately cease and desist.  If you don't stop, you will only sink deeper making it more difficult to get your life back on track.

You might want to write that rule on paper and look at it several times a day when you are having problems.  If you stop digging and start doing something constructive, it won't be long before you are back to living your dreams.
 

I really got stuck this time.  I drove about fifty feet into soft sand, and the easiest way to recover my vehicle was to hook up a winch.  We could have used sand ladders to extract our bogged Defender, but it would have taken a long time and a lot of effort.  We were about 300 kilometers off-road, and we had places to go and things to do, so we took the quick and easy way out.
 



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