Joshua Slocum said, "You must
know the sea, and know that you know it, and know that it was
meant to be sailed upon." What Joshua was describing was a real
True mariners are in short supply. There have never been so many
boats parked in marinas, and so few mariners to take them out of
The ocean is a mariner factory. When you successfully weather a
storm at sea, you're one storm closer to becoming a true mariner.
Surviving a single storm at sea may not make you into a mariner,
but it's a step in the right direction.
Becoming a mariner takes time, because it requires years to get to
know the sea in all of its moods. You can't get to know it from
books. You can read about it all you want, but until you
experience it first hand, you won't understand the wiles of the
sea. You need to put thousands of miles in your wake before you
know the sea and know that you know it.
I've been to seminars designed
to prepare sailors for offshore sailing. Seminars are good at
teaching people what to do in an emergency, but there's no seminar
that can make you into a mariner. Only the sea can do that.
Becoming a mariner is a
catch-22 situation. You shouldn't go to sea unless you are a
mariner, and you can't become a mariner unless you go to sea.
The wannabe mariner's dilemma isn't as bad as it first might
seem. Becoming a mariner is an incremental task, and most of all,
you need time at sea. There's no other way to become a mariner
except by slipping your dock lines and getting out on the high
seas. The trick is to not bite off more than you can chew early
on in the process.
When I first set sail on my circumnavigation, I had never sailed
offshore at night. I was comfortable with the idea of sailing
during daylight hours, but night sailing was an entirely different
matter. I felt as if I was sailing blind and it made me uneasy.
I had to start thinking like a mariner about night sailing. I
quickly discovered that if I reduced sail and slowed the boat down
at night, my distaste for night sailing went away. Slowing down
at night was one of the first mariner-like lessons I learned on my
trip around the world.
The sea has many lessons to teach, and if we pay attention, it
won't be long before we start behaving like mariners. Our sea
legs will come, and eventually we will learn to swashbuckle with
confidence as we sail the seven seas.
Knowing the sea, and knowing that you know it, isn't impossible,
it just takes time. If you are patient and put in the time, your
confidence will increase, and you will know that the sea was meant
to sailed upon. You will become a true mariner.
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